On May 31, Jacky Oh—real name Jacklyn Smith— a 32-year-old model, entrepreneur, and actress, died in Miami, FL, while receiving a “mommy makeover,” leaving three children and a longtime partner behind.

Stop comparing yourself to others; you're doing yourself and the world around you such a terrible injustice, robbing them of the beauty and awesomeness of who YOU are. Comparison is the thief of joy. Don't let it steal yours.