In September 1993, Janet Jackson appeared on the cover of Rolling Stone naked with her then husband’s hands covering her breast. Her sister, Rebbie Jackson, who calls herself a student of the Bible, admits that she didn’t like it and neither did their mother.

“Hustlers,” at its core, is a true story about a group of New York City strippers that execute a plot to use their sexuality for a come-up at the expense of Wall Street fat cats. In today’s cultural climate, contrary to scripture, many women do see—and use— their own sexuality as a tool of empowerment and advancement.

Two different stories have emerged in connection to Pastor John Gray’s cheating scandal. He said on daytime talk show, “The Real,” that his affair was only “emotional” and not sexual, but a woman who identifies herself as his former mistress says the two had a consensual sexual relationship.

When it comes to abstinence, everyone has weak moments. But Meagan Good says the most effective way to be successful is to know your triggers. Here are six.